When should you say no to your one night stand partner？-Chapter 2

In the first chapter I was just talking about the situations when you're in an online hookup app that you should say no to your casual dating partner. So in this chapter I'm going to focus on sharing with you when you're meeting your casual hookup partner in real life, and when you should say no to your casual date so that you don't get hurt from your casual date. Because there are so many malicious people in this world, we can't let down our guard. Of course, there are many people in this world who are not bad people, but some of their actions may hurt you. Therefore, you still have to learn to protect yourself. After all, no one in the world can always accompany you, right?

The people who really want to please you don't want to hurt you and don't want to do anything against your will. So, say no to your one night stand date when you're in any of the following situations. Because people have no right to ask you to accept what they want to do. You are the one who controls your life. So keep your dating power firmly in your hands and don't be pushed around all the time.

If your date asks you for your first offline one-night stand in the middle of nowhere, say no! Because our casual dating policy is to meet in public. Now there are many news stories about a person who was taken to a very remote place by someone he met on an online dating app, who was robbed or murdered. Such cases are endless. If you don't want to be the next victim or the subject of a tragedy, say no to requests to meet in the middle of nowhere.

And choosing a public place is the most suitable place to meet for the first time, because there are more people in public places, which can help you call for help in time, if you are really in danger.

Second, if you really don't want another drink, but your one-night stand date is unanimous in urging you to drink more, say no! Because when the body is under the influence of alcohol, it is easy to lose consciousness. When you lose consciousness, you're at the mercy of your one-night dating partner. No matter what evil they do to you, you can't get rid of it. That's the most dangerous thing in the world. Therefore, be very aware of how much you can drink. If you really can't have another drink, stop it and don't let your casual date pour you another drink.

We have to be careful when hooking up with someone we've never actually met in real life. Because their real motives are often hidden behind the mask of their hypocrisy. We need to use our sharpest eyes to see the flaws in them to keep ourselves from being hurt. Many people feel that they and their one night dating partner have known each other for a long time on an online casual hookup apps, so they think they can trust each other completely. If you think so, you are wrong. Because they are probably pretending to be themselves, their true purpose will be revealed when you actually meet them.